There is a time when you feel like going away from your family, away from all the noise, scolding and daily violence that takes place between you and parents to find some peace but when you move out of your shell, you have to accept the non acceptance of your nature by others, you have to struggle every moment to get recognition and then you realize that home is the only place where the actual peace lies and family is the real supporter.
How different and unique our life is, it teaches us many lessons in a
manner where it is important to commit mistakes in order to enrich our
level of self incarnation. Committing mistakes is important for
understanding the value of people who are there to care for you and you
don’t realize it when they are near you. One of this mistake is an idea
of moving away from the parents for finding peace. I have got many
friends who are staying with their parents but they wants to go some
place away from their parents for studies. I had the same opinion few
years back. I wanted to go away. I wanted to find peace and happiness
away from my family. I was tired of daily fights and family disputes. I
started feeling depressed, tensed and thus toned my mind with a negative
vibes. I started thinking that i can be happy without them. I was not
mature enough to understand the deep meaning of the thoughts that i had.
It was a childish desire to go away. I was always an introvert and shy
person, for whom communicating with people was very difficult. When i
moved out of my shell, i could realise that no one will support you
until they have got some self interest. You will be used in the manner
you can not even deny even when you know the purpose. The world is so
selfish. It is so different from whatever that can be seen. when one
goes away from the family for any purpose (education, job etc) it is
very difficult to restrain oneself from getting swayed in the river of
complete independence and not indulging in the wrong ways like sex,
drinks, drugs, late night parties and ea touts. Now a days it is not a
big deal and also not a big issue to get involved into all these things.
In fact if you are flexible enough to adopt yourself in such an
environment, you would be welcomed happily but if you resist in any
manner you will be hated like a jerk and left alone. And it is very
difficult to be alone. It is difficult to stand alone. And thus many
people falls in such traps. But i would say better to be alone than
getting indulge into all bad things with bad people. Better to be alone
than being with such foolish people who are wasting their life on such
fucking things. On this point i can recall one joke which i would like
to quote here During sex, the couples help each other get naked, after
sex they do it on their own, moral is no one helps once you are fucked.
So if you think that your best buddies with whom you are doing all these
bad things are gonna help you out then you are wrong, they are like the
birds, who will fly as soon as they find any bad signal. Only family
and relatives can be the real people whom one should trust. So if you
think that you are cool because you drink, have sex, do night outs then
trust me you are fucked up. Don’t do any act which you cannot share with
your parents.
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